THE SEARCH IS OVER

Title: Survivor - The Search Is Over


How can I convince you what you see is real
Who am I to blame you for doubting what you feel
I was always reachin', you were just a girl I knew
I took for granted the friend I have in you

I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes
I can see forever, the search is over
You were with me all the while

Can we last forever, will we fall apart
At times it's so confusing, these questions of the heart
You followed me through changes and patiently you'd wait
Till I came to my senses through some miracle of fate

I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Now I look into your eyes
I can see forever, the search is over
You were with me all the while

Now the miles stretch out behind me
Loves that I have lost
Broken hearts lie victims of the game
Then good luck it finally struck
Like lightning from the blue
Every highway leading me back to you

Now at last I hold you, now all is said and done
The search has come full circle
Our destinies are one
So if you ever loved me
Show me that you give a damn
You'll know for certain
The man I really am

I was living for a dream, loving for a moment
Taking on the world, that was just my style
Then I touched your hand, I could hear you whisper
The search is over, love was right before my eyes

Jeffrey, sweety this is for you... I love you..

Long Distance Relationships Videos

I like this song, I think I can use this as a song for my special someone.You are not alone, we are together. forever.




Call Me On Your Way Back Home lyrics

Oh baby why do I miss you like I do
Oh I miss my sweet
And the birds all singing blue
And white

And white
Call me on your way back home dear
Cause I miss you

Honey I ain't nothing new
Oh baby why did I treat you like I did
Honey I was just a kid
Bubblegum on my shoe

But you love me and I love you
Call me on your way back home dear
Cause I miss you
And I just wanna die without you
Oh I just wanna die without you
Yeah I just wanna die without you

.....(I like this song too. Very nice, relaxing and has a very touching lyrics).



This song by Norah Jone "Turned me On" is a nice song, very relaxing and inspiring.

Long Distance Love Quotes

Words that inspire real long distance relationship couples

"Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to the next time you will." Added by Lehxi


"Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough..." Added by Michelle


"If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together. There is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart... I'll always be with you." Added by Michelle


"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." - Helen Keller
Added by Liz


"I'll hold you in my heart, till I can hold you in my arms." Added by Sarah


"Distance means so little when someone means so much." Added by Sarah


"And as days go by, the memories remain. I wait for you. As days go by I swear I'll try. Until I die. Anything for you." Added by EJ


"We are the perfect couple, we're just not in the perfect situation." Added by Erin


"Sometimes I get so mad that your not here I want to throw you in oncoming traffic, but then I member I'd probably kill myself trying to save you." Added by Sommer


"Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss." Added by Erin


"I'll turn my back and walk away, away from the pain. Scream it loud, drown it out by the sound of the rain. Listen up, I've had enough all this waiting. I need you more right now than I ever did!" - Hawthorne Heights "Somewhere In Between"
Added by Aloin


"Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.
- Stephen Packer
Added by Sandra


"If the only place where I could see you was in my dreams, I'd sleep forever." Added by Justine


"True love doesn't mean being inseparable; it means being separated and nothing changes." Added by Justine


"Distance is to love like wind is to fire...it extinguishes the small and kindles the great!" Added by soulinme


"I'd rather fight with you, than kiss anyone else." Added by Megan


"You live too far away.
Your voice rings like a bell anyway.
Don't give up your independence, unless it feels so right.
Nothing good comes easily, sometimes you've got to fight."
"Amber" by 311
Added by Johnny


"Guys are like stars... There are a million of them... but only ONE can make your dreams come true!" Added by Corian


"The longest period of time is waiting for something or someone you truly want." Added by Erin


"Nothing in this world worth having comes easy." Added by Kat


"When you feel alone, just look at the spaces between your fingers, remember that in those spaces you can see my fingers locked with yours forever." Added by Swati


"Behind every stong soldier, there is an even stronger woman who stands behind him, supports him, and loves him with all her heart." Added by Corian


"Though space restraint us from being together, but one thing I am sure of,there are no spaces in my heart that restraining me from loving you..." Added by Glaiza


"No great love ever came without great struggle." Added by Alex


"If there's a heaven out there somewhere, it's a place where we never have to say goodbye." Added by Rosemarie


"Some people search for their entire lives for what we have and never find it. I won't give up. I'll fight for you." Added by Stephanie


"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Added by Nicole


"And ever has it been known that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." - Khalil Gibran
Added by Michelle


"I don't miss you and you alone - I miss you and me together."
Added by Gia


"The thought of being with you tomorrow gives me the strength to go on today."
Added by Gia


"Love finds a way."
Added by Rick


Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
- Richard Marx "Right Here Waiting"

Added by Heather


"I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)" - E.E. Cummings

Added by Eleanor

What Kind of Partner Are You in Your Relationship?

First, let's discuss three popular kinds of partnerships that people settle into while in a relationship. The first one is called the father/daughter relationship. In this kind of relationship, the man plays the role that you would normally see reserved for a parent. For example, the husband might decide that his wife will be paid an allowance as oppose to having equal access to their money.

In fact this man might go so far as to believe that it is his money that he is sharing with her and not theirs. Another example is the man who needs to control her social life and or network of friends. Much like a father, men can be very protective of their daughters.

Women, also, will fall into the role of a mother/son relationship. They will nick-pick their husbands to no end to get him to do and behave as they would have him. They cater to his needs and wants much like a real mother does for her dependent son. His clothes are washed and ironed, his meals are made for him, and the home operates around his mood.

The second type of relationship that couples adopt is the brother/sister relationship. This happens when you have two people who have just about everything in common besides physical desire and romance. Maybe they started off believing that they were love mates but over time have realized that they do better as friends. What little attraction that's left is nothing more than an appreciation of common interests.

The third type of relationship that partners imitate is the kind that is found within a healthy relationship between two healthy individuals who are not only soul mates but also good companions. This kind of partnership is referred to as the partner/partner relationship. Women and men within these types of relationships have their own identity. Their identity is not a threat to their partner nor does their partner see it necessary to control their expression.

They operate from a frame of reference where love and romance is a personal exploration between two aware individuals who have some pertinent things in common with a desire to share mutual emotional, physical, and spiritual experiences. This type of partner/partner relationship doesn't feed off the traditions of the past, how mom and dad behaved, or what one sees in the movies.

So, what kind of mate are you? Are you in a relationship where you're the daughter, the mother, or the sister? Are you emotionally and financially being handled by a man who is the father, the brother, or the son? Maybe you're none of these characters. Perhaps you're your own person and within a relationship you can call your own.

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http://www.FeleciaTownsend.info Felecia Townsend is a relationship enthusiast and personal coach. She has spent years learning the art of successful relationships and through her philanthropic writing is giving back to the community that has given her so much.

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How to Get a Girlfriend - Using Super Powerful Girlfriend Getter Strategies

Dude, if you feel that you're the only one wanting to find a quality girlfriend, you are sorely mistaken. There are a lot more men who are dreaming of getting a girlfriend out there, and you're not alone at all! However, what sets you apart from those other guys is your willingness to read more about the finer points of finding a girlfriend easily. The fact is, you can improve your chances of getting through to that special lady if you use these simple methods that deliver astounding results quickly...

How to Start Looking for a Girlfriend? Use These Strategies

First Step. Skill Development. Attracting and ultimately dating women is not that easy if you don't have a lot of confidence in you. Building real self confidence means learning how to approach, creating compelling conversations and getting the skills needed to develop rapport with girls.

Second Step. Describe your IDEAL. Dating a quality girl starts when you know the traits you are looking for in a girlfriend. Discover the EXACT type of girl you want to date so you can meet her. Take this time to reflect and enumerate the characteristics of your ideal girl. With these in mind, you can sift through the random and find that particular girl you want.

Third Step. Determine where your ideal girl hangs out. You already know her traits or at least some of them. Now, you have an idea where to start looking. If she's the sporty type, you can bet that she's in a gym somewhere, learning yoga or working out on the treadmill. If she's a food lover like you, you want to hang out in culinary schools and take cooking lessons yourself!

Fourth Step. Approach your type frequently. Have you heard it said that finding women you like is a game of numbers? The more girls you approach, the more likely you will find the one for you. Don't worry about rejection, just keep at it!

Fifth Step. Hypnotize her. There is a method to build instant rapport with a woman, and it involves hypnosis. In particular, there's a technique we call fractionation, which gets the job done fast. Once you get this right, she will be falling for you like a ton of bricks in a matter of minutes.

But before you use hypnosis techniques, you must heed this warning...

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

It is described in a step-by-step system in the Deadly Seduction Manuscript (http://www.DeadlySeduction.com).

These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.

But if you're ready to get girls without breaking a sweat, then do this. Click on this link for an easy step-by-step system that will get you instant attraction from any girl you meet, guaranteed, and for free: Deadly Seduction Tactics

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The Break Up

Break ups, unfortunately for some of us an inevitable part of life, your lucky (some will say) if you have never ever experienced one. However I now believe that to understand your self fully you need to experience a break up where you have truly loved and you feel as though the world will stop without that person in your life. Let me explain, one year ago I split up with the love of my life, we had been together for seven years in total.

The year leading to the split she fell pregnant accidentally; however we were both very excited about the situation and started preparing to bring a baby into this world. We decorated and baby proofed our house and ensured that our finances and everything would be set to cope with a new life. Unfortunately early into the pregnancy she suffered from a miscarriage, apparently very common for women during their first pregnancy. As you can imagine we were both devastated by the news and I tried my hardest to be a rock for her and give my full support.

Experiencing a miscarriage with a partner is a strange thing and is still a very taboo subject to talk about, even though it is apparently very common. Friends, family and colleagues don't know what to say and generally try to avoid the subject at all cost. Occasionally you will get the wisened mother who will pull you to one side and say "I suffered a couple of miscarriages before I had my first born so try not to worry" it was comforting to know that we were not alone and that there was hope. The miscarriage unfortunately instead of driving us closer drove us apart as she found it hard to recover from the trauma.

A few months passed and finally we began to get back to our normal selves and our relationship was recovering. Then one week before my 29th birthday, I received a call from my sister "Dad's had a heart attack!"

We rushed to the hospital and to the intensive care unit where my father was being treated. I found my father very weak from the major heart attack he had suffered, but still alive, there was still hope. The doctors advised how serious this situation was and that they would do everything they could to save him.

For one of the longest weeks of my life my fiancé, my two sisters, my mum and I all crowded into a waiting room in the hospital, taking it in turns to visit and comfort my father, all the time waiting for further news from the doctors.

My birthday came and no one was in the mood for celebrating as Dads condition had deteriorated over the week. The doctors asked to talk to all of us and gave us the news we feared, there was no more they could do and that we would have to turn off my fathers life support machine that evening. We all said our goodbyes to my father, I told him I loved him and thanked him for everything he had done us. My father died that evening, we were all devastated.

I was very close to my father and considered him a best friend; my fiancé who lost her father when she was young was also amazingly close to my dad, so we were both reeling from his death. She became my rock as I struggled to cope with his loss.

Christmas came and was strange without Dad, a few months passed and I was still struggling. Coming home from work I would get off the train and burst into tears during the walk home, I missed him immensely.

Then shortly after Valentines Day my fiancé said we needed to speak and broke the news that she no longer loved me or wanted to be with me, I was devastated and could not figure out what to do. I was grieving Dad and the loss of our child and would now lose the only person left in my life that I truly loved and that understood me; I wanted to end my life there and then.

My mind was on overdrive, all the previous events compacted into one and I now had to also think about moving out, my finances and how my life had changed forever, I felt physically and emotionally crushed I had nothing left to give and wanted the pain to stop. I cried for a few days (I'm not normally the crying type I may add) until, I guess, my survival mechanism kicked in and I started to speak to friends and family.

My friends and family helped but I didn't think they truly understood what I was going through, I was searching for answers. I tried counseling for a few sessions but again did not feel as though it helped as much as I needed.

At a loss I turned to Google for answers and typed in 'heart break and loss', so many sites appeared all with help and advice on how to recover from break ups and grieving. I was touched by reading other peoples stories and knowing that I was not alone, at times like these you can feel very isolated. The world seems to keep on turning when your own is unrecognisable. I buried myself in these sites for weeks and learn a lot about the grieving process and how we deal with major change and trauma, it really helped me.

Looking back I think my fiancé was right to have ended our relationship as I think the love had gone before she fell pregnant and that I was just settling for what I thought was a good relationship. The unfortunate circumstances acted as the catalyst to test the strength or relationship and it crumbled, it wasn't meant to be.

Going through this whole experience has changed me and made me a stronger person. It has also forced me to accept change and in doing so has made me more open minded to future change. I also now know not to just settle in a relationship for the sake of it, life's to short to just settle.

A year later and I am happier than I have been for a very long time, I am more outgoing than ever, have lost about 3 stone from the gym and have also accepted voluntary redundancy from my job in the city, im off to become a snowboarding instructor in Canada, life could not be more different than a year ago.

The events that happened to me are all part and parcel of life and its how we deal with these events that make us who we are. We will all suffer traumatic and turbulent times in life, but life does get better no matter how dark the path may become.

As a result I have started my own website http://www.over-it.co.uk/ to help people like myself deal with the emotional and practical side of break ups, other people's stories helped me immensely and I thank all of those kind people for being so open and frank about their lives, I hope I can help others in the same way.

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How to Get Back With Your Ex - Some Simple Ideas

Knowing "How to get back with your ex" is necessary if you aren't ready to call it a day with the love that escaped from you. You were not prepared for the relationship to finish. Be it a relationship where you were dating, or a marriage that terminated after a messy divorce, there may always be a second chance. So you want to know "How to get back with your ex".

If love really existed in the first place, it may still be there. You can't just forget about the previous errors but you can give the love a second chance. When you have both taken a step back from the errors and taken some time to reflect on things it may be possible to come together again, however, you will certainly not wish to act too quickly.

You must be able to resolve the problems that caused the relationship to fracture in the first place. You must both of you work at the problems; if you don't succeed finding solutions you will not get back together for very long.

Where it was a single event that caused the fracture, you must either learn how to accept what happened or find out how to fix the problem.

Where the problem was one of cheating this may be difficult to recover from. Where trust is broken it is difficult and slow to get back. It takes a long time to overcome a deception and there must also be a reason to be believe it will not be repeated if trust is eventually to return.

Some group therapy may be useful in this case.

You may be sad but you must never give the impression that you are desperate to get them to return. Show that you have sorted things out in your head. As much as is possible, show that you are confident. Your ex will see you as an exciting person and they will likely want to get back with you again.

Above all you must be sure in your own mind that you are really doing the right thing for yourself in wanting to get back with your ex. Are you sure that life for you will be better with them than if you had moved on elsewhere. There is no point in making a huge effort working out "How to get back with your ex" only that the relationship falls apart again soon afterwards and your efforts are wasted.

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